I’ve always thought it interesting that Solomon wrote Proverbs, the everyday handbook for discipline, prudence, discretion and discernment. His life story is evidence that his wisdom seemed to reside mostly in the realm of ideals, not in the core of his character. Here’s a guy who absolutely disrespected his father, David’s, life, kingdom and devotion to the one true God. I can’t help but think of Paris Hilton and a hypothetical scenario where, upon the death of her father, she is suddenly charged with running his mammoth hotel chain and humbly runs to God for help. God gives her heaps of business acumen, she writes inspiring books, but spends most of her time slurping rum-laden Jell-O shooters, shopping for handbags and sunglasses with other trust fund babies, and collecting chiseled boy toys from every household in Beverly Hills. Contrary to the wisdom of Proverbs, Solomon not only hung out with bad company, but he lived with bad company. He had sex with bad company. Lots of it. He built the temple his father only dreamt of, but it ended up in the shadow of altars to pagan idols, Chemosh and Molech, erected on the hill east of Jerusalem. And that was only two of the many high places he built and only two of the many idols of his many pagan wives. He didn’t stop there. His idolatry divided a united kingdom of Israel and left her spiritually in ruin. I’m currently teaching a series called “Imperfect People of a Perfect God” and last night Solomon was on the “hot seat.” We were looking into his life to find ours. I pointed out that he steadily processed through the 3 steps toward idolatry. Toleration > Comfort> Participation. Instead of eating an elephant one bite at a time, I suppose the elephant (the rare carnivorous kind) ate him bite by bite. And of course, it happens so easily to us as we pander ourselves to modern-day pleasures.
The most interesting part of the story is also the most necessary. God is so gracious toward Solomon from beginning to end. Even at first, when he was running to God for help, Solomon offered sacrifices on a pagan altar in direct disobedience to divine decrees found in Deuteronomy 12. God still answered and blessed. Even when Solomon began participating in ritual pagan worship along with his wives and God’s anger burned white-hot, the Lord chose to “tear the kingdom away” from his son and not Solomon himself. What’s more, God ensured Solomon that one tribe (Judah) would remain for
Jerusalem, the lineage through which Jesus would arrive to address the idolatry in us all. And it was an enormous affront to God that he had personally appeared to the wise king twice, yet Solomon still went passionately into the laps of dead gods. I suppose it’s a sad story, though in the end the flickering pilot light of redemption withstood another stiff gust of spiritual infidelity exhaled by a chosen people. And now, for us in Christ, the flame of God’s righteous love is incinerating the bones of sin and scorching the lungs of death as it scrambles to stay out from under Jesus’ feet.
I’ve come to discover how different God is from us in the way he relates truth and wisdom. His words and commands don’t originate in his thoughts and sensible ideals. They originate in his character. In who he is. That’s a fundamental difference between us and him and a great reason to be in relationship to him. His talk is his life, but he can’t be reduced to the sum of his words, as is often done to make him a tablet-wielding dictator of the cosmos issuing job descriptions instead of love letters. Most of us, as N.T. Wright says, want a General at the foot of our beds in the morning telling us, “Do this and do that” instead of the God revealed in Jesus of Nazareth who is there actually saying, “Once upon a time…” Our eternal lives don’t begin by morally ascending to principles and dictates. They begin by ascending to relationship. It’s probably more like descending, coming down off our ladders stretched between reality and manufactured moral high ground to see and hear something far more worthy of our lives. The vision and voice of David’s God. Maybe what Solomon needed was a lonely pasture, a deadly enemy, a forsaken cave, or a constant stream of wars to discover that he need more than God’s blessing and wisdom. He needed God himself. Maybe we need those, too.

